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How Much We Pay Our Kids For Chores

“How much to pay kids for chores?” is a question my wife have wrestled with. “ I’ve already explained in a previous post why we don’t give our kids allowances. I’m not giving them money just for existing, which is what an allowance implies. Kids need to feel the burden of work so they can experience the joy of its rewards.

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In addition to earning some money, doing chores around the house is teaching them responsibility. The home is where they should begin to learn basic life skills. I knew some freshman college students who couldn’t do their own laundry. My oldest two children have been doing that since they were nine.

Questions About Paying Kids For Chores

There are so many questions that arise for parents on the issue of paying kids for chores. Some of the big ones we’ve wrestled with include:

“At what age should we start?”

“What tasks should my kids be doing?”

“Do I pay them for everything?”

“How much should I be paying them?”

I’m not sure there is a cut and dry answer to those questions. We’ve gone back and forth on the issues since we began our work-for-pay commission program. Five years into it, this is how we see it:

1. We choose age appropriate chores for each kid. These began at age 5 or 6. (Our oldest was actually 8 when we started the program.)

2. We don’t pay them for all work around the house. There are some tasks they simply do because they are part of the family. For us those include things like making beds, doing dishes, setting/cleaning the table, walking the dog, running errands around the house, getting the mail, packing school lunches, and picking up toys outside.

3. We don’t pay them equally. Some chores are worth more than others because of their difficulty. The older they get the more chores they do and the more they get paid.

4. There are additional chores they can voluntarily choose to complete for extra money.

How Much to Pay Kids For Chores

The question of how much to pay kids for chores is a tough one. I’ve heard many say the going rate is $1 per task. To me, that rate seems like a good starting point, especially for the young ones. However, as ours aged and the tasks became more challenging, we increased the amount, as you will see below.

My best suggestion is to make the amount paid a part of the monthly budget and do what you can afford. This has to be a personal decision upon evaluation of your own family budget.

Remember the real reward is found in the work ethic and responsibility being developed not in the “how much” they are getting.

If you can’t afford much, try substituting other rewards for chores in lieu of money. Perhaps staying up later, watching an extra hour of TV or getting an additional 30 minutes with the Xbox could be options. We’ve considered implementing these type of reward options for chores but haven’t pulled the trigger yet.

Our List of Chores and Payment Schedule

These are the chores our kids are required to complete at least once per week:

Child #1 – Girl – Age 13

Sweep hardwood floors in the entire downstairs

Take trash to the curb on trash day

Clean and vacuum her bedroom

Thoroughly clean upstairs kids bathroom (sink, toilet, shower, mop)

Mop the kitchen floor on Saturday

Do her personal laundry

Clean up after the dog in the yard with brother

Pay – $10/wk. (if all tasks are completed)

Child #2 – Boy – Age 11

Sweep kitchen floor on Saturday

Clean the downstairs bathroom (sink, toilet)

Clean and vacuum bedroom on Saturday

Clean kitchen widows and glass deck door with Windex

Do his personal laundry

Clean up after dog in the yard with older sister

Pay – $8/wk.

Child #3 – Girl – Age 7

Vacuum upstairs hallway

Empty trash in mom and dad’s bedroom and bathroom

Clean and vacuum her bedroom

Put her clean clothes away (after we launder them)

Vacuum mom and dad’s bedroom

Pay – $5/wk

Child #4 – Boy – Age 6

Wipe down the stairway railings

Empty the kid’s bathroom and all their bedroom trash

Clean his bedroom on Tuesday

Put his clean clothes away (after we launder them)

Water the plants in the house

Pay – $5/wk.

The following infrequent chores the kids can select for extra money, provided they ask us first:


Change bed sheets – $.75

Dust the downstairs – $1.50

Wipe down doors/door jams – $1.50

Clean master bathroom – $2.00

Sweep/clean garage – $3.00

Weed flower beds – $4.00

Scrub kitchen grout – $6.00

Mow the yard – $6.00

Other – depends on job

The Benefits of This Chore System

You might be saying at this point, “That’s a lot of money!”

Some quick calculations would cause me to agree. If all the chores are completed, we are handing over $28 per week to our kids. That’s approximately $1,450 per year.

A couple of points to consider here:

1. Every other week somebody forgets at least one chore, so the actual amount is sometimes less.

2. We can afford and do budget for this. This money doesn’t keep us from paying down debt, putting food on the table or keeping the lights on (which obviously would be higher priorities).

3. We’ve seen some great benefits develop including:

*It’s taught them the value of completing more challenging tasks. They are rewarded more and thus are driven to attempt them.

*It’s helped them buy their own stuff. My daughter purchased her own iPod with the money she saved from her chores.

*It’s relieved the burden we as parents feel when the kids nickel-and-dime us for spending money. All I say now on the smaller requests is “Use your spending money.”

*It’s taught them to use their money wisely. It means more to them because they earned it.

How Much to Pay Kids For Chores Is An Evolving Process

I’m sure this system will continue to evolve, especially as the kids go through their teen years. We will have to add/drop chores and adjust the amount paid as they get older. I’m fine with that though, because as I’ve said multiple times in this two part series, paying kids for chores isn’t all about the money.

If you’d like to download a sample chore sheet you can find one on my “Resources” page by clicking here. It’s an Excel file so you will be able to customize it to whatever chores are being done in your household.

Questions: What thoughts do you have on how much to pay kids for chores? How many chores is too many? Are there chores your kids do just because they are part of the family? Anyone use alternative reward options for finishing chores? Could you do laundry by the time you were a freshman in college?

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  1. KYLEE TURCO says:

    Informative blog post ! . I like how you have everything laid out and the given pay for each item. Speaking of which if others are searching for a GSA Form 618D , my kids used a blank version here “https://goo.gl/KrThrw“.

  2. I like how you explained everything and it was great for my kids to hear that “other parents do X and Y and Z” as well..for example kids won’t get paid for doing some work that is just contributing to the work of meals and having clean clothes in their drawers.

    Do your kids get to spend the total of their allowance (we use the term commission at our house) or do they need to spend some, save some and share some?

    Thanks again for the great resource!

  3. I realize I’m late to the party here, but I somehow just found your site!

    We have set up a similar situation with our kids, but think of their allowance (yes we call it that) more of a salary. They have to do their household tasks without argument, threat or reminder. They ALSO have to be friendly, pleasant members of the family. We have teens now and all have been on their own budgets since age 8 and pay for their own clothing, shoes, activities, food away from home, charity, gifts and fund their savings. This is done with their very significant allowance for which they do very significant work for us.

    As they get older, I’d suggest decreasing your kids allowance rather than increasing it, starting at age 16. Once they can start earning their own money, they should depend on ours less with the idea they are paying for most of their own expenses by the time they are ready to move out.

    I cannot wait to read the rest of what you have to offer. This is a great site!
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    • Jessica says:

      Im actually considering doing the same with my 14 (almost 15) year old child. Yes i realize it’s late for this but i want her to start saving money to help finance her car and other things. Could you elaborate as to how much you pay your child and for what chorse? Also i have my own business and want her to work for me in effort to prepare her for the real world. Is this a bad idea?

      • Hi Jessica!

        I don’t want to hijack the thread here, but I think when I post this comment, you’ll get a link to a blog post we wrote about this very topic. Basically, we pay our kids a large salary out of which they pay for their own clothing, shoes, school activities, school lunch, entertainment, charity, etc. In return, they are expected to work around the house. We don’t use checklists and we aren’t paying for chores in the way most people would think of paying for chores. We are not giving the kids the money as free money. Instead it is money we would have spent on them anyway (they decide how their activities money will be spent, we just decide how much they will receive each month).

        It’s important to note that we didn’t start out this way. We started having the kids take over one category at a time. Our kids were 7 & 8 years old at the time, so we started with school lunch. If they wanted to spend the money on lunch at school they could, but if they wanted to save it for something else, that was fine with us.

        I hope that helps!
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  4. I don’t know if I missed this or not, but do you only give the flat rate ($10 or $8, etc.) if they complete ALL the required chores? If they don’t complete the all, do they get a portion of the money or is it all or nothing?

  5. I had a classmate in high school who was freaking out when we were all going to college because she’s never done a load of laundry in her life. Me? I’ve been doing laundry since I was 5 (started with sorting/folding)! I like the idea of having some chores not paid for because they’re just things you’re expected to do. I’m glad you mentioned those.

  6. I like the idea of some chores just being expected like making your bed and cleaning dishes after meals, and then other bigger chores like mowing the lawn being attached to dollar amounts that the kids can chose.

    • It feels like a good balance so far. And I think it’s a good picture of reality in the workplace. We don’t get paid for every little extra we do at our job. Some things we do just because we work there.

  7. Holly Johnson says:

    We don’t pay our kids for chores yet because they are so small. My 5-year-old does have to make her bed and straighten her stuffed animals each day or she can’t play after daycare!
    I’m guessing we will pay them for chores when the time comes. They are pretty money-motivated. =)

    • That’s good though you still have an incentive hanging out there for her to make her bed and straighten up the animals. Rewards come in all shapes and sizes.

  8. The amounts seem reasonable. That’s about what we do. Like you said, you can afford it in your budget and that’s what matters. As long as you can afford it, $1 per chore, for that age, is a good starting point. Your daughter’s chores are very similar to my daughter’s chores. lol Thanks for the post! Great info!

    • Thanks for the feedback Kalen! Glad to know it doesn’t sound unreasonable. Sometimes when I’m paying $30+/wk. for chores it seems so.

      • I feel the same way! I try to look at it like, the more I am dishing out, the more they are building a solid work ethic, but yeah, paying $30+ can seem like a bit much sometimes.

  9. Hey, your dryer looks like mine! LOL We used to do something similarly with our kids. Are they diligent about checking off their tasks? That’s something that we struggled with a bit. What got done and what didn’t. For the weekly chores, what if they’ve only done a portion of the items on the list? Do you prorate the payment? It happens.

    • “Are they diligent about checking off their tasks?” I am reminding them, “Hey kids, have you done your chores?” We haven’t quite reached the stage yet where it’s done without suggestion. They do forget to check things off on occasion. Usually I don’t pay them for that even if I know they’ve done the work. I’m trying to teach being detailed and following through on the process.

  10. Up until now, I don’t think I’ve ever given allowance a thought.. but that’s because I don’t have kids (yet!) I think your system sounds great. I like that there are opportunities for them to make money if they feel like it or want it bad enough.

    • “…opportunities for them to make money…” That’s giving them options. Sometimes they take it and other times they don’t. I think that’s a good primer on what it’s going to be like later on for them as an adult.

  11. That is a very smart system you have in place for kids and chores. It teaches them hard work and the value of a dollar at an early age. I like the fact how the cost of each chore varies based on its degree of difficulty.
    I’ll be honest, when I was a kid I was spoiled. My sister and I had it way too easy. I didn’t have an allowance and my parents bought me most things. I didn’t even do that many chores and my mom insisted on cooking the meals. I guess it didn’t really help that I didn’t have the desire (and still don’t today, but I cook now to save money). As I got older, in my teens I felt as if I needed more independence, so I made a point to apply to schools at least an hour drive away. I made my dad show me how to do the laundry before I went away and learned to do basic cooking when I was living off-campus.

    • “…my parents bought me most things.” Of course, we are still purchasing most items for them. But I like having them responsible for some things. My daughter goes to Wednesday night church and they have an early session where they serve pizza. She’s using her own money for that each week. That’s one example of a nickle-and-dime expense that could get very frustrating for a parent to deal with every week. It’s her choice to go to that early session so she uses her money for it.

  12. “Vacuum mom and dad’s bedroom” nice 🙂 I don’t remember doing much more than setting the table and putting the dirty dishes in the dishwasher as a kid, but when money was involved I was always on board. My grandmother once offered to pay us per weed uprooted in her garden and made her calculation poorly so we worked and sweated all day and in the end she owed us more than a professional gardener haha. Looks like you have your price in check, and I am pretty impressed your 11yo can do his laundry!

    • “…11yo can do his laundry!” The toughest part is just reaching the wet clothes at the bottom of the washing machine. He needs to get on a stool but even then his arms can’t hardly making it to the bottom without sticking his head in. 🙂

  13. Love this, Brian. As you know, we do something similar with Lauren and Taylor. Like you, I don’t pay for the things that we consider to be regular responsibilities as members of our household. I post a job list and the girls can choose which tasks they want to complete. At this time, I don’t have weekly chores for them to do, it’s up to them to choose and complete the work. The amounts vary based on the difficulty of the task. It’s really been a great system and the girls have responded well to it. The girls were always pretty good about mindful of how they used their money, but now that they are earning money, they are even more careful, which makes me very happy to see!

    • I like giving the kids some options for selecting which chore to do. Seems like that might break the monotony of doing the same chore over and over, week after week.

  14. Six Figures Under says:

    We pay far below the going rate, but our kids are 2,4, and 6, so they are thrilled with any money. In fact, they would rather get 20 pennies than 2 dimes, even though they know it’s the same amount of money.

    I’m curious how the partnered chores go (cleaning up after the dog). Even though my kids are young, I can hear them bickering about who did more and who needs to do the rest (maybe they’ll grow out of it).

    • Ours have been pretty good about it. We have a front yard and a back yard, both of which need the dog messes in. So sometimes they do it all together…other times one does the front while the other does the back. They do their laundry together to…so one will start it, the other moves it to the dryer, then they both fold once it’s done. We do get some of the “He’s not helping!” complaints every once in awhile though. 🙂

  15. Very cool Brian! This is very helpful as we start to doing something like this with our 6 year old. I like how you have everything laid out and the given pay for each item. Do you set expectations as to how much they should save and give as well? I was doing my laundry by 10 or 11 I believe. I told my Mom one day that I wanted something done a certain way and she said fine, you can do it that way, so I guess that was her way of pushing me to do it. 🙂

    • We do have them each set up with a giving, saving and spending jars. I don’t do percentages for each, like putting 10% aside for giving. I think we might try to implement percentages later when they get older. Right now I split the money for the youngest two (who get $5/wk) out this way – $1 for giving, $2 for saving and $2 spending. The older two have a similar distribution with slightly more going into saving than spending each week. The cool thing is once they have $50 accumulated in their savings jar, we go deposit that in the bank. That’s always a fun trip for them.

  16. Shannon says:

    Wow! That is a lot of stuff for you guys to keep up with! How do you keep track of monitoring each chore completion for each child, including the bonus chores? We have a difficult time keeping track of just a few that my son has and I am always looking for a better system.

    • I made a chart in Excel that has the chores listed for each child. There is a column for them to mark off when they complete the chore. Other than the ones I specified, they can choose any day of the week to complete a chore. When I see it’s marked off I check to make sure it was done. We pay them once a week based on that week’s work. Then they get a new chart for the next week.

      We try to spread chores out over the course of the week so they don’t have to do them all in one day. It does get hectic though some weeks when they forget or we are busy. Sometimes Saturday turns into a “do-all-your-chores” day.

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